I can’t help but wonder

I was reading an article about Meatless Mondays that is being “forced” on students in public schools. The article states animal rights activists are behind this movement. They are talking to students about the earth, the animals and what eating meat does to both.
Read the article here: http://news.yahoo.com/public-schools-forcibly-subject-students-meatless-monday-activism-021822637.html

I don’t have a problem with Meatless Mondays or Fish only Fridays. But I do wonder what life would look like if everybody minded their own business. What would the world look like if you were allowed to worship, eat, marry, learn, teach, dress they way you wanted to. Now don’t get me wrong, I understand we need rules and laws. I don’t support abuse of humans or cruelty to animals. Hhmmm I guess that’s the thing, my definition of abuse to animals is not the same as an animal rights activist’s view on abuse. Where is the common ground? If you don’t believe in eating meat then by all means, don’t eat meat. If you don’t want to wear clothes at the beach, there are places designated for that. If you dont’ want to worship a God then don’t go to church. If you don’t appreciate emissions from cars then walk. If you want to feed your children fast food every night and never give them a vegetable, I’m good with that as well. How much of life are we going to regulate, manipulate, and dictate?

Is it our duty as a society to push our agenda on others? Why do we insist on others living the way we live? Why must other’s worship your God? Let me throw this out here, how different is the ISIS from the Christian Crusades? How many lost their lives in the effort to advance the kingdom?

If I don’t vote the way you think I should, why can’t we still be friends? Why must we insult other people who vote, live and think differently? Why can’t I embrace your way of life and you embrace mine.

Again, I understand we need laws to deter crime. But we have a lot of laws on the books now and there is still quite a bit of crime going on daily. Is it because we don’t have enough laws? Is it because the thought of sitting in prison for life is not a deterrent? Perhaps it’s because we don’t love enough. If we put our differences aside and I look at you as a fellow human on this journey of life together and accept you where you are the way you are, would the heaviness of life appear a little lighter? If you could go to a neighbor and say, I am having a bad day and need to leave my kids with you for a day and not fear the state taking them away, would more children live or not experience abuse? If you could say to your partner, I need a break from you and have the option of taking a break, would more marriages survive? If a teen could say to a parent, teacher, friend, counselor I am having a tough time and have thoughts of committing suicide or killing people in mass and receive help instead of judgement or isolation, would they reach out?

I don’t have answers but I do have a lot of questions.

Meatless Mondays… Per the article, if you don’t support meatless Mondays, pack your kids a lunch. Don’t get me started on the number of kids that don’t have food at home to pack. That’s another topic for another day.

Should Educators Use Social Media in the Classroom?

This document was created as a final project for a class I was taking during my studies toward my Master of Education degree.

Social media is used to communicate thoughts, opinions, photographs, videos, location and life status’ in a community. (Merriam Webster) A person creates an account which contains a user name, date of birth, current zip code or city they live in, life preferences as in music, products, movies, websites and often a photograph. The account is attached to a valid e-mail address. These accounts offer opportunity for private messaging by adjusting privacy settings. These posts or messages are not accessible by others in the community only those selected by the author. Otherwise, information that is shared in the community is accessible by members of the community.

When students are in class, they may feel free to share something on the social media site they would not otherwise say in a public setting. If the topic is public and not private, the student has left a “digital tattoo” (Nathan, MacGoyan and Shaffer) that is not easily removed. Facebook, the number one social media site, has approximately 1,310,000,000 users. The average person has 130 friends. (statistic brain) If a member of Facebook posts a comment which is accessible by their 130 friends and 20 of those friends comment or like the post, which adds an additional 2600 potential viewers of the post. That is assuming those 20 who liked the post only have 130 friends and they have their post viewing options set to friends only. Otherwise, the community at large has access to the post.

With the previous example in mind, students and educators should understand the short and long-term ramifications of using social media for class projects. Since employers today use social media to screen applicants and to see what current employees are posting, educational institutions should decide whether or not an instructor should require students to set up and publish to social media accounts. Some schools set up a semi-private sites on the school’s network or by using http://www.ning.com. (Casey) If students are completely aware of the potential negative impact on their current or future employment and reputations, are the students fully sharing and participating in the classes or are they guarded and limited in regards to honest communication? Ravenscroft states, “…not only are social media not designed for learning and education but the commercial model behind popular social media actually prohibits learning because they fundamentally promote conviviality and deliberately exclude ‘fostering the capacity for debate and disagreement.” Debate and disagreement are considered fundamental to learning according to the social constructivist approach. Faculty are concerned with privacy, 70%  and integrity, 80% and see these as important or very important.

As of May 2014, 15 states had enacted legislature preventing current or potential employers from asking for social media passwords or requiring employees to “friend” them. (Dames) The employers states they are ensuring current employees are not passing on trade secrets or other proprietary information.  Some states have similar legislation to protect students in public colleges and universities from having to grant access to their social networking accounts. (National Conference of State Legislatures) However, if the class requires using or creating a blog, Twitter or LinkedIn accounts to complete assignments, do students have the option to decline and still successfully complete the course? Nathan, MacGougan and Shaffer explored the top 15 ISchools’ policies governing social media usage. They found that only two of the schools addressed social media in policy. That policy was focused on the schools’ branding and usage of its logo. They discussed institutions not creating policy protecting students, the schools or the instructors before incorporating social media into the classroom. The other aspect considered by Nathan et al is, when a profile is created, the students have to agree to the terms or service of that of the application. These terms may conflict with current legislature concerning student privacy.

Some of the benefits of using social media include, achieving the objectives of Bloom’s taxonomy. “Using social media, students learn various ways of facilitating, remembering, understanding, analyzing, applying, evaluating and creating.” (Cao, Ajjan and Hong) According to their research, students are more engaged and experience better learning outcomes and satisfaction when social media is used. Elavsky, Mislan, and Elavsky conducted research on students attending large lecture style courses. According to that study, it is easier for students to pretend to take notes on their laptops or handheld devices when they are actually accessing e-mail or social media applications. They incorporated using Twitter into class assignments to increase student engagement both in and out of the classroom. They created a # hashtag and a key word for students to respond to during the lecture. They were also able to see classmates’ responses. Another study that used Twitter in a microeconomics class found the students learned how to write short concise statements explaining concepts in 140 words or less. This allowed teachers required teachers to spend less time evaluating longer papers.  Social media also allows students to comment and interact with other student and instructors from anywhere in the world. (Uhl) Interacting with others students fosters communication and engagement. Instructors are able to save money on travel expenses yet students reap get the benefit of a person’s expertise. The guest lecture has the ability to Skype in as opposed to flying in.

Social media is used at a higher rate by educators in the humanities and arts fields as well as applied and social science. (Cao, Ajjan and Hong) Now, business communication instructors are incorporating social medial into their course curricula to keep up with the business needs in the workplace. (Gaytan) Additional benefits of using social media in the classroom are having students who are prepared to take on the new business model that is changing with the new technology. The market place is now global instead of local. Using forms of social media assist in reaching those customers and business partners.

Should educators use social media in the classroom? Incorporating social media into the curricula is not necessarily an easy or quick process. Schools need to have policies in place that list guidelines. Those guidelines should include protecting the students’ privacy, providing an option to opt out for students who do not wish to created online profiles or share current profiles. The policy should outline how the posts or messages will be saved and stored and whether or not they will be used or published at a later date. After the policy is in place, it is imperative that staff is provided professional development, guidance and assistance in integrating social media. When the instructor is comfortable using the application they enhance the students’ experience. (Abe and Jordan)

ReferencesAbe, P., & Jordan, N. (3013). Integrating Social Media Into the Classroom Curriculum. About Campus, 18(1), 16-20.Cao, Y., Ajjan, H., & Hong, P. (2013). Using social media applications for educational outcomes in college teaching: A structural equation analysis. British Journal Of Educational Technology, 44(4), 581-593. doi:10.1111/bjet.12066

Dame, J. (2014, January 10). Will employers still ask for Facebook passwords in 2014? Retrieved from ttp://www.usatoday.com/story/money/business/2014/01/10/facebook-passwords-employers/4327739/

EBizMBA Guide. (2014, July). Top 15 Most Popular Social Networking Sites | July 2014. Retrieved from http://www.ebizmba.com/articles/social-networking-websites

Facebook Statistics | Statistic Brain. (2014, July 1). Retrieved from http://www.statisticbrain.com/facebook-statistics/

Gaytan, J. (2013). Integrating Social Media into the Learning Environment of the Classroom: Following Social Constructivism Principles. Journal of Applied Research for Business Instruction, 11(1). Retrieved from http://libproxy.library.edu:2277/2.0.0

Hendricks, D. (2013, May 8). The Complete History of Social Media: Then And Now. Retrieved May 27, 2014, from http://smallbiztrends.com/2013/05/the-complete-history-of-social-media-infographic.html

Loizzo, J., & Ertmer, P. (2014). 10 Tips for Implementing Social Media in the Classroom. Learning & Leading With Technology, 41(6), 32-35.

Merriam Webster. (n.d.). Social media – Definition and More from the Free Merriam-Webster Dictionary. Retrieved from http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/social%20media

Moran, M., Seaman, J., & Tinti-Kane, H. (2011). Teaching, learning, and sharing: How today’s higher education faculty use social media. Pearson Learning Solutions and Babson Survey Research Group. Retrieved from http://www.completionmatters.org/sites/default/files/pearson-social-media-survey-2011-color.pdf

Nathan, L., MacGougan, A., & Shaffer, E. (2014). If Not Us, Who? Social Media Policy and the iSchool Classroom. Journal Of Education For Library & Information Science, 55(2), 112-132.

National Conference of State Legislatures. (2014, May 30). Employer Access to Social Media Passwords Legislation. Retrieved from http://www.ncsl.org/research/telecommunications-and-information-technology/employer-access-to-social-media-passwords-2013.aspx

Ravenscroft, A. G. (2012). Designing and evaluating social media for learning: shaping social networking into social learning?. Journal Of Computer Assisted Learning, 28(3), 177-182

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Harper Collins controversy three years later

I am a bit late weighing in on this topic but I will go with better late than never.

I have read many articles that were in support of and against the revised e-book purchasing system that Harper Collins put in place for libraries. Library workers and patrons were in an uproar about the change. Harper Collins’ new policy would only allow an e-book to have 26 electronic check outs before the library would be required to purchase another license at a discounted (paperback book) rate. The concern was the cost of repurchasing new e-books. Harper Collins found this to be a fair process and the standoff began.

A movement began to boycott Harper Collins. Like any good boycott, the purpose was to ensure Harper Collins would feel the financial hit from consumers to get them to change their minds. They did not. But some of the libraries changed theirs when they saw what was offered from some of the other publishers.

After reading several articles, I found myself supporting Harper Collins. Some of my reasons are as follows:

1.) Authors, publishers, editors, advertisers and IT departments all get a portion of the proceeds. The publishing companies add-on an additional cost when the decided to offer books via e-book. They did not quit offering paper copies of books, they added another process, additional employees and resources in the form of programmers, servers etc. What is the cost to them? Who should they pass the costs too?
2.) They do not have a forced renewal program based upon time for all of the books they offer. You renew a title, at a discounted rate, after the maximum number of usages is reached. Some other publishers don’t offer the books immediately. Libraries what to offer popular books when they are first available on the market, that is the draw the them and satisfaction of their customer.
3.) Libraries are realizing they are not as negatively affected as they thought they would be. They are not running out of their initial 26 checkout options at the rate they thought they would.

Harper Collins stuck to their business model and libraries are coming around and seeing it’s not such a terrible model after all. Not all have embraced the changes but they are adapting and accepting the change.

References:

Kelley, M. (2012, February 17). One Year Later, Harper Collins Sticking to 26-Loan Cap, and Some Librarians Rethink Opposition – The Digital Shift. The Digital Shift. Retrieved July 27, 2014, from http://www.thedigitalshift.com/2012/02/ebooks/one-year-later-harpercollins-sticking-to-26-loan-cap-and-some-librarians-rethink-opposition/

Kelley, M. (2012, October 24). Giving HarperCollins’s Ebook Model Some Credit and More Thought | Editorial. Library Journal. Retrieved July 27, 2014, from http://lj.libraryjournal.com/2012/10/opinion/editorial/a-modest-ebook-proposal-a-big-six-publisher-has-already-provided-a-model-to-build-on/#_

Vaccaro, A. (2014, June 27). Why It’s Difficult For Your Library to Stock Ebooks. Boston.com. Retrieved July 27, 2014, from http://www.boston.com/business/technology/2014/06/27/why-difficult-for-your-library-stock-ebooks/rrl464TPxDaYmDnJewOmzH/story.html

Gin and Tonic

Gin and tonic
Tonic and gin
You have quite the reputation
They said you make people sin
I heard a guy say something
I’m not sure what it meant
He said you would help a man get in
So now you have people?
Are you handing out passes?
Is it only to those with highball glasses?
Hangovers, hangouts, hang ups and hang downs
What kind of people are you hanging around?
Chose your friends carefully
You’re building quite the reputation
That girl who fell down the stairs
Called you, gin, her only liberation
Was she being held captive?
Did you really set her free?
Or did you capture her when she was weak
Gin and tonic
Tonic and gin
The friendship that just won’t end
You are strong
You provide courage
But it’s only for while
Then life, that was out of focus
Comes back without the hocus pocus
Friend of no one
Loved by many
At the end of the day
A headache and regrets is what awaits

Who’s afraid of the big bad iPad?

How often do we find ourselves afraid of something because we are ill prepared? We fear it because we don’t understand it or because it challenges us to change our comfortable way of living and thinking. There are a number of administrators, teachers, parent and students who feel this way about incorporating technology into the classrooms.

When technology meets children they are propelled into a world of wonder, challenges, immediate rewards and instant gratification. Who doesn’t want to hear encouragement and earn rewards on their quest to becoming the best of the best?
Some of the challenges with technology is how rapid it changes, how slow we are to embrace it, fears of over exposure to the world and its potential dangers. Conversely, the good things are instant answers, exposure to other experiences, the ability to reach out to people on the other side of the world which has completely changed business, training and now slowly but surely the educational model.

One school district in my area issued iPads to some of their students. Initially parents were concerned about the cost, responsibility that it placed on their children to keep up with the iPad, potential breakage along with not fully understanding how the devices would assist in the educational process. The parents were not comfortable with the teachers’ ability to incorporate technology into the learning process. They parents expressed valid concerns.

How do educators successfully integrate technology with the curriculum? This is new territory. There has been research conducted on the subject of incorporating technology into the classroom and the most effective route to increasing student’s usage, the effectiveness of technology on learning as well as other topics along this vein.

As we continue to speed towards an increasing usage of technology in the classroom, we can embrace the fears and realize the technology will not blow our house down but with the usage of the right software, we can build a house that is able to withstand strong winds.

First Date Do’s and Don’ts

I met this guy a few months ago. We’ve talked and texted since then but due to our schedules and let’s face it, lack of any real effort we went out for the first time recently. After I write this article I really should write one that helps you determine if the person is date worthy.
I’m not new to dating. I’ve had several first dates that never led to a second date. I’m not a serial dater but I consider my time valuable and can’t see spending hours with a person I never want to see again, because they seem nice but have no substance or are self-absorbed. First dates can be awkward. But there are things you can do to lessen the awkwardness and increase the chances of there being a second date.

Shall we number these? Sure, why not?

1. Resist the urge stare at your date – seems like a no brainer right? If it wasn’t occurring I wouldn’t add it to my list. My last two dates sat across from me and stared. One with the intention of making me uncomfortable. He was trying to, “see my soul through my eyes.” It reminded me of staring contests I would get into with my honeygirl when she was a toddler. She had uncanny ability to not blink. I always lost therefore I never accepted that particular challenge from anybody else. What’s the point anyway? Heck, I like blinking. The other person was much more smooth with his staring and even gave me a line upfront, “I’m not staring, I’m observing.” Call it what you want it still results in making your date uncomfortable.

2. If you are going to insist on the other person selecting the place then don’t complain or worse wait until you get to the restaurant to let them know how much you dislike their selection. “Why didn’t you say something two hours ago when I made the suggestion?” ” I didn’t want to offend you.” I can fully appreciate not wanting to offend someone, irritating them is a much better option.

3. Allow the other person to talk. I know you and your life are fascinating but there’s something so engaging about dialogue. If you don’t ruin the first date you might get a second one and can use that date to tell the other person how smart, talented and wonderful you are.

4. Keep your assets to yourself. I’m not using that as a metaphor. Unless you are looking for a gold digger it’s not necessary to list all of your assets on the first date. I understand you want to appear successful but unless you are giving out one of your many houses or putting my name on your large bank account, I honestly don’t care.

5. Don’t talk about your ex. I had one guy insist on taking me out for my birthday as our first date. He spent an hour ranting about his ex whom he had been divorced from for three years. Another one actually called his ex and the mother of his children a bitch. If you will call her a name what’s to keep you from calling me one? We aren’t friends and I’m not your confidante. Get over your ex or at the very least don’t disrepect them in front of your date.

6. Be yourself but not all of yourself. Save the revelation of fetishes, quirks and anything else that may abruptly end the potential relationship until the third date. Those things may seem charming and eclectic instead of weird and strange by then.

7. Hold off on the selfies or usies. I don’t like the thought of my face being plastered all over someone’s social media outlets. Call me old-fashioned. Let’s add, don’t take unauthorized photos either. One of my friends mentioned something about a guy taking pictures of her toe cleavage without asking her and it was on the first date. Had he waited to reveal his foot fetish until the third date who knows what could have happened between them.

8. Be “normal”- Use your active listening skills. Make brief eye contact, smile and even laugh a little.

9. Enjoy the silence. Every moment of a date doesn’t have to be filled with conversation. It may seem awkward at first but give it a try. This is not an opportunity to manipulate or intimidate the other person. “I’m going be quiet and stare at you until you talk.” It’s givng an opportunity to chew your food, enjoy the music or think about something intriguing you just said.

If you have any others to add feel free to leave them in the comments. Thanks for stopping by.

Ode to My Honeygirl

Tomorrow she turns 12. It doesn’t seem that long ago that the teenager and I were at reading time when I went into labor. I waited until it was over, got him buckled in the van, gave him some graham crackers and a drink then I called my doctor. Thirteen hours of labor later, she was born. It was around 1am.

I was tired and hungry, how did they expect a pregnant woman to survive so many hours on ice chips? I looked over at her held her for a moment to count all of her fingers and toes (why do we do that?) and give her a quick snuggle then handed her to her dad then asked the nurse to please give me something to eat. It’s the middle of the night in the hospital and the cafeteria was closed so I had to settle for graham crackers, peanut butter and grape juice but I digress.

She had to go to the NICU because she swallowed meconium during her slow trip down the canal. A short time later, I walked down to see her and hold her. I looked in her eyes and realized the five and a half months of being sick, laying on my couch in the dark and not being able to eat anything other than mashed potatoes with gravy and a biscuit were not worth the trauma (just kidding…maybe).

She has grown into a vivacious, quick-witted, artsy, loving, don’t get in my space unless invited, long story telling (detailed oriented?) intelligent, perceptive young lady. I constantly remind her that she is, by far, my favorite daughter. She’s everything I could ask for in a daughter plus a couple of other things that I never would have asked for but apparently need in order to balance our lives. She walks slow, taking in her surroundings, picking up flower and admiring rocks. She has always had a thing for rocks. Her eyes would light up and she would get excited and almost giddy if the rock was shiny. She has an extensive collection of rocks. She will pull one out periodically to admire its shape, color and luster.

When she was a baby, I would sing these words to her, “You are so beautiful to me. You’re everything I hoped for; you’re everything I need. You are so beautiful to (mommy)…” – Ray Charles

I am glad to have been chosen to be her mom.

Happy Birthday to you my dear sweet Honeygirl. I love you!